When You Have Become 2 Strangers Living Under One Roof
Getting Divorced or Staying
in a Stale Marriage Aren't
Your Only Options.
Get Lifetime Access to the Proven Program that
Rebuilds Connection, Intimacy and Fun,
STARTING TODAY.
"Fire It Up quite literally saved our relationship, and Carolyn's kind, light-hearted, and very wise approach to couples' dynamics is tremendously helpful. Your relationship deserves this!!" -Jill
You have the beautiful kids, great jobs, the dog . . . but
what happened to the romance?
12 weeks from now, this could be you. Even if you think it’s too late. Even if you're questioning, “Do I even want this back?”...
You gently awaken to the soft sunlight streaming through the curtains. A luxurious stretch relaxes every muscle. With the coaxing of a playful nudge, your partner offers to get up and brew the morning coffee. 🙌
You flirtatiously jostle for that first cup of coffee.
You spend the afternoon exploring a shared interest.
You end the day reminiscing about your journey together and making plans for the future.
Why?
Because you discovered a way back from living like roommates...
Your Path Back From
Living Like Roommates:
When you first fell in love, it felt effortless.
Now life is full --careers, kids, and calendars--and your relationship has taken a back seat. The spark is dimmer. You’re turning to your phone more than to each other and wondering, Is this just how it goes?
It’s not.
This moment is normal. Staying stuck isn’t.
With the right tools, you can rebuild closeness, reignite intimacy, and feel like you again together.
The Fire It Up Self Study Program gives you everything you need to start today, on your terms, with tools that actually work.
Introducing The Fire It Up Marriage Accelerator™️
Self Study Edition
The No BS 12-Week Fast Track to Putting
the Fucking Fun Back in Your Marriage
You've spent enough time stuck, frustrated, and disconnected.
You’re ready for a relationship that feels alive again — one filled with laughter, intimacy, and real partnership.
The Fire It Up Self-Study program shows you how to:
⚡ Rebuild closeness with tenderness and trust
⚡ Create real tension, excitement, and intimacy again
⚡ Laugh, flirt, and actually have fun together
⚡ Fall back in love with yourself and each other
⚡ Build a shared vision that fuels both your joy and your future
And because you get lifetime access, you can take the program once — or return to it anytime you need a boost, a reset, or a fresh spark.
You don’t need more talking.
You need real tools that work — and a clear path forward you can actually enjoy.
“I was amazed at how simple and doable Carolyn’s framework was. The Oxygen, Fuel, Ignition, and Spark model made everything click — finally, we had a clear path forward. What surprised us most was how natural it felt. Nothing forced, nothing awkward — just real conversations and connection, guided by tools that actually work. Carolyn’s warmth and wisdom made it feel safe, even fun. We expected hard work… but we didn’t expect it to feel this good.”
- Josh and Amelia
What to Expect
A 12-Lesson Series of Wins to Rediscover
The Best Version of You & Your Beloved
Self-Paced, Evidence-Based Tools and Lessons:
Built for Real Change, On Your Schedule.
01. On-Demand Lessons
Real Tools. Real Change. On Your Time.
Get immediate access to 12 transformative lessons — each designed to rebuild connection, intimacy, and fun. Watch, rewatch, and move at your own pace, no deadlines.
02. Actionable Exercises
Turn Insights into Daily Wins.
Every lesson comes with guided exercises, reflection prompts, and practical tools you can use right away to shift your relationship, not just think about it.
03. Materials for Every Learner
Learn Your Way and Actually Make it Stick.
Whether you prefer video, journaling, quick activities, or structured guides, you’ll have multiple ways to absorb and apply the work, in whatever style fits you best.
04. Lifetime Access
Your Relationship Reset Whenever You Need It.
You get lifetime access to all videos, tools, and materials so you can revisit anytime you need a boost, a reset, or a fresh spark. This isn’t a one-time course. It’s a resource for every season of your relationship.
A one-time investment of $497
$99 off through August 15
with code AUGUSTLOVE at checkout
How It Works
The couples who experience the biggest breakthroughs? They don’t wait for the perfect time.
They carve out small, consistent moments to invest in each other—just a little each week—and it changes everything.
Here’s how to get the most out of your Fire It Up Self-Study experience:
💥Log in anytime. You have lifetime access to over 15 hours of expert, real-talk guidance.
💥Watch the 20+ short videos. Bite-sized, bingeable, and built for real life.
💥Follow the path—or choose your own. Go in order or jump to what matters most now.
💥Do the exercises. These aren’t fluff—they’re designed to shift habits and spark real connection.
💥Repeat what works. Return to the tools whenever you need a reset. This work grows with you.
💥Expect change. Every small step builds clarity, connection, and momentum.
You might be thinking: “How am I supposed to find time for this?”
The stress of disconnection is already costing you time, energy, and peace of mind. This program isn’t one more thing to do: it’s the thing that makes everything else easier.
You can keep surviving the tension… or start building something better.
Fire It Up is here to help you do exactly that.
What We’ll Cover
Program Curriculum
Lessons 1-3
Create a Shared Purpose
Create a shared vision for your life together — and start bringing it to life, one powerful step at a time.
Lessons 4-6
Arouse Interest in Each Other
You think you know everything about each other — until you uncover new layers of yourself and your partner that reignite connection and curiosity.
Lessons 7-9
Protect Your Marriage
Learn how to face challenges side by side — not against each other. Better communication, conflict resolution and repair.
Lessons 10-12
Enjoy Head-Turning Desire
No more forced date nights or scheduled sex.
Rebuild the kind of connection that makes you want to linger, laugh, and reach for each other again. 😉
Meet Therapist Turned Clini-Coach©️
Carolyn Sharp
If you’re here, chances are your marriage feels stuck or dangerously disconnected.
I’m Carolyn Sharp, trusted relationship expert and author of Fire It Up: Four Secrets to Reigniting Intimacy and Joy in Your Relationship.
As a therapist, coach, international speaker, wife, mom, and stepmom, I know how easy it is for life to pull you apart and how hard it can feel to find your way back.
I’ve helped many hundreds of couples reignite what they thought was lost.
The Fire It Up Self-Study program gives you the tools to rebuild connection, create shared purpose, and fall back in love — at your pace, for good.
A one-time investment of $497.
$99 off through August 15
with code AUGUSTLOVE at checkout
Is this for you?
This is Coaching, Not Therapy.
Which is Best For You?
Therapy is a better fit if you or your partner:
❌Want to rehash the past to manage the present.
❌Suffer from deep-rooted issues like addiction, abuse, or infidelity.
❌ Have mental health concerns or major unhealed trauma.
❌ Are in crisis and need immediate attention.
❌ Want change but are unwilling to do anything different.
You’re a good fit for this coaching program if you want to:
✅ Focus on the present to build a brighter future
✅ Protect your marriage from threats like financial stress, lack of sex, parenting disagreements, and more.
✅ Break free of patterns of the past to overcome differences that grind on you like the incessant beeping of a smoke detector’s low battery alert.
✅ Transform your marriage in 12 lessons and are ready to do the work.
“Carolyn, you were amazing. Present, solid, unbiased, intelligent, engaged. So, so helpful for both of us and that’s a fucking miracle. 🩷"
-e and J
Frequently Asked Questions
Q. What if my partner doesn’t want to participate?
If your partner is resistant, it’s usually more about how they’re being asked rather than the idea itself. Within the program, you will learn how to invite them into a healthier relationship in a way that motivates them to participate.
Q. I don’t have enough time as it is. How can I add one more thing to my to-do list?
A struggling relationship takes up a LOT of time & energy. Putting that energy into healing your relationship is just moving the time around.
You can spend your energy surviving, or you can spend your energy thriving.
Q. What exactly am I getting, and for how much?
For $497, you get lifetime access to everything you need to reignite your relationship — on your schedule:
‣ 12 on-demand lessons packed with real tools for connection, intimacy, and joy
‣ Guided exercises to turn insight into daily change
‣ Downloadable videos, prompts, and worksheets for every learning style
‣ Unlimited access to revisit anytime you need a boost
BONUS CONTENT: ANYTIME CAROLYN RUNS A WEBINAR, YOU GET ACCESS.
No groups. No deadlines. No pressure.
Just real tools — ready when you are.
A one-time investment of $497
$99 off through August 15
with code AUGUSTLOVE at checkout
Disclaimer - The material you have read is entirely free and will give you actionable steps to rekindle your marriage.