When You’ve Become 2 Strangers Living Under One Roof
Getting Divorced or
Staying in a Stale Marriage
Aren’t Your Only Options
12 weeks from now, this could be you. Even if you think it’s too late. Even if you're questioning, “Do I even want this back?”...
You gently awaken to the soft sunlight streaming through the curtains. A luxurious stretch relaxes every muscle. With the coaxing of a playful nudge, your partner offers to get up and brew the morning coffee. 🙌
You flirtatiously jostle for that first cup of coffee. You spend the afternoon exploring a shared interest. You end the day reminiscing about your journey together and making plans for the future.
Why?
Because you discovered a way back from living like roommates...
You have the beautiful kids, great jobs, the dog . . . but
what happened to the romance?
Your Path Back From
Living Like Roommates
When you first met and fell in love, you captivated each other. Everything was fresh and exciting.
As your relationship matured, you went from spending time face to face to standing shoulder to shoulder as you faced the world together. While your love remained constant, it faded into the background.
Then you checked off all of life's boxes, like graduating from college, getting married, having kids, building a successful career, and the question of “what’s next” is undefined for the very first time.
This is often when we begin to question our marriage. Unsure of what to do, we seek distraction rather than facing the issues head-on. We turn to our phones instead of toward each other.
But it's important to recognize that this phase is an inevitable part of life's journey.
Divorce and distractions may buy you time, as circling around a rotary does. But at some point, you’ll have to exit the rotary and navigate this intersection.
It takes a skilled professional with gobs of experience to guide you through this intersection toward a richer, happier life with your partner.
Introducing The Fire It Up Marriage Accelerator™️
The No BS 12-Week Fast Track to Putting
the Fucking Fun Back in Your Marriage
You've tried it all — date nights, therapy, and self-help books. Yet, you’re still frustrated and bored.
It’s time for a new approach. One that doesn’t require:
❌ Failed attempts to force fun
❌ Exchanging jabs in therapy sessions
❌ Pleasing your partner at the expense of your happiness
❌ Feigning interest when you’d rather be tiktoking than talking
❌ Insufferable conversations beginning with “We need to talk...”
In this 12-week program, you will learn how to bring fun and skin-tingling passion back into your marriage (even if your love life is as dry as a bone.)What can you realistically achieve in twelve weeks?In 12 short weeks, you could:
⚡Experience the closeness you’re craving with tender vulnerability
⚡️Build torturously good tension & anticipation for intimacy
⚡Laugh and play together more
⚡Fall back in love with yourself, your partner & your life
⚡Rediscover shared goals and be part of something bigger than yourself
Hard to believe? I promise you all of this is within your reach when you shift your focus from problems to solutions, from doubts to possibilities.
"Fire It Up quite literally saved our relationship, and Carolyn's kind, light-hearted, and very wise approach to couples' dynamics is tremendously helpful. Your relationship deserves this investment!!" -Jill
What to Expect
A 12-Week Series of Wins to Rediscover
The Best Version of You & Your Beloved
Evidence-based Education, Coaching
and Accountability in a Small Group Setting
01. Private onboarding session
Personalized Path Forward
You’ll be welcomed into the program with a private onboarding session to provide you with a personalized plan.
02. On-demand training
Change Your Marriage in 12 Hours
Each week, you’ll complete 1 of 12 pre-recorded lessons & activities designed to create the closeness you crave. Lessons take up to 1 hour a week to complete.
03. Live weekly coaching calls
Turn Newfound Knowledge
into Lasting Change
Apply what you’ve learned with the help of live weekly Zoom calls where I coach you live.
Attend live, with cameras on or off, or submit your questions in advance and watch on-demand
Coaching calls take place at least three out of every four weeks of the month on Wednesdays at 8 AM EST.
Live Q&As are on alternating Tuesdays and Thursdays at 6 PM EST.
Each call is 1 hour long.
04. Members-only community
Learn From the Setbacks & Successes of Other Couples
Avoid common relationship pitfalls and feel less alone by witnessing and learning from other couples in the program.
You can also tap into this community that never sleeps to give and receive support between coaching calls.
If you like, you may participate in the group anonymously.
Plus, 6 Months of Access & Support While You Adjust To Your New Normal
Settle into your new and improved relationship with 6 months of access to the entire program, including the program content, live calls, and the private community. You will have access for 6 months starting from the date of purchase.
A one-time investment of $1997.
Price will be increasing January 10, 2025!
How It Works
Couples that get the best results devote 2-3 hours a week to bettering themselves and their marriage. I recommend:
1. Receive a personalized plan during our private onboarding call
2. Complete one pre-recorded training a week (takes up to 1 hour)
3. Attend 1 or 2 live calls a week to bridge the gap between knowledge & action
4. Receive validation and support in the private members-only community
5. Settle into your new normal with extended support
Now, you may be thinking, “How am I going to add one more thing to my overflowing to-do list?”
The truth is, it will take effort, as anything worth doing does. But a struggling relationship takes up a LOT of energy. Putting that energy into your relationship is just moving the time around.
You can spend your time and energy surviving, or you can spend it thriving.
What We’ll Cover
Program Curriculum
Week 1-3
Create a Shared Purpose
Become part of something bigger than yourself by creating a shared purpose and direction to be brought to life in the next 12 weeks.
Week 4-6
Arouse Interest in Each Other
You think you know everything there is to know about each other, but you’ll be pleasantly surprised by what you learn about yourself and your partner in weeks 4-6.
Week 7-9
Protect Your Marriage From Potential Threats
Learn how to turn towards each other instead of against each other when confronted by life’s challenges.
Week 10-12
Enjoy Head-Turning Desire
No more awkward date nights or scheduled sex. Create a genuine desire for holding hands, lingering over dinner, laughing together, talking about life, and more. 😉
Meet Therapist Turned Clini-Coach©️
Carolyn Sharp
If you’re reading this, your marriage is probably in a rut—or worse, on the brink of collapse. You’re frustrated and bored, and you want more for your marriage. For your life.
Hi, I’m Carolyn Sharp, and I’ve been where you are.
I’ve worn many hats, including therapist, coach, wife, mom, and stepmom. As a result, I deeply understand the challenges you face when life has driven you apart. When one or both of you have shut down and withdrawn from the relationship.
I’ve helped hundreds of couples rekindle the love they once had. Now, I want to do the same for you.
This 12-week program is your shortcut to a shared purpose and a future that excites you. I invite you to sign up and see for yourself
A one-time investment of $1997.
Is this for you?
This is Coaching, Not Therapy.
Which is Best For You?
Therapy is a better fit if you or your partner:
❌Wants to rehash the past to manage the present.
❌Suffer from deep-rooted issues like addiction, abuse, or infidelity.
❌ Have mental health concerns or major unhealed trauma.
❌ Are in crisis and need immediate attention.
❌ Require insurance to cover the cost
❌ OK with limited support offered once a week in an artificial environment.
You’re a good fit for this group coaching program if you want to:
✅ Focus on the present to build a brighter future
✅ Protect your marriage from threats like financial stress, lack of sex, parenting disagreements, and more.
✅ Break free of patterns of the past to overcome differences that grind on you like the incessant beeping of a smoke detector’s low battery alert.
✅ Transform your marriage in 12 weeks.
✅ Make a one-time investment in your marriage of $1997.
✅ Experience rapid results with real-time support while you’re applying what you learn.
“Carolyn, you were amazing. Present, solid, unbiased, intelligent, engaged. So, so helpful for both of us and that’s a fucking miracle. 🩷"
-e and J
Tour the Program
Your Guided Tour of Fire Up My Marriage™
Frequently Asked Questions
Q. What if my partner doesn’t want to participate?
A. If your partner is resistant, it’s usually more about how they’re being asked rather than the idea itself. Within the program, I will help you invite them into a healthier relationship in a way that motivates them to participate.
Q. If marriage counseling didn’t help, why would this?
A. Unlike therapy, where the past is rehashed 60 minutes a week and occurs in an artificial environment, Fire Up My Marriage™ delivers rapid results with present-focused activities and continuous, real-time support. This includes weekly live calls and a 24/7 members-only Facebook community. All within the comfort of your home.
Q. I won’t be able to attend the live calls. Is it still worth it?
A. Yes. You can submit your questions beforehand and watch the recordings of the calls at your convenience. Don’t let the quest for perfection prevent you from participating.
Q. I don’t have enough time as it is. How can I add one more thing to my to-do list?
A. A struggling relationship takes up a LOT of time & energy. Putting that energy into healing your relationship is just moving the time around.
You can spend your energy surviving, or you can spend your energy thriving.
Q. What if I want to take a break or go on vacation during the 12 weeks?
A. That’s fine. You’ll have access to the program for 6 months from the date you signed up. Enjoy your vacation and pick up from where you left off when you return.
Q. What are the days and times of the live group coaching calls?
A. Live calls take place at least 3 out of 4 weeks of each month on Wednesdays at 8 AM EST and Thursdays at 6 PM EST. Attend live, with cameras on or off, or submit your questions in advance and watch on-demand. Any updates or modifications to the schedule will be communicated in advance.
Q. Can I participate anonymously?
A. Sure. You can post in the FB group anonymously and attend coaching calls with your cameras off if you like.
Q. What exactly am I getting, and for how much?
A. For a one-time investment of $1997, you’re getting everything you need to transform your marriage:
‣ Private onboarding session to personalize your experience
‣ 12 on-demand lessons & activities that will change your marriage in 12 hours
‣ Live coaching & QA calls twice weekly to turn newfound knowledge into action. Attend live or watch the recordings. One meeting a week to learn the materials and exercises and one for coaching on your relationship needs!
‣ Private members-only community to support you in between coaching calls.
‣ Extended support as you settle into your new normal with 6 lifetime access to the program materials and 6 months of coaching and group support.
Lifetime access to the course materials. 6 months of live coaching and group support.
Are you on the fence?
If You Sign Up & Show the Slightest Bit of Effort,
I Will Pull You Through to Success
If you’re still reading this, you’re probably on the fence.
I get it. Even if the disconnect in your marriage weighs on you like a heavy anchor pulling you down, there’s comfort in familiarity. Even when the familiarity makes you miserable.
Or maybe you’re afraid to try and fail and risk extinguishing your last hope for a happy relationship.
While I can’t guarantee results, from my experience supporting hundreds of couples, turning your marriage around often takes surprisingly little.
One small change or shift in perspective can create a ripple effect of positive changes.
I invite you to sign up today and start the first ripple.
A one-time investment of $1997.
Price will be increasing January 10, 2025
Disclaimer - The material you have read is entirely free and will give you actionable steps to rekindle your marriage.